I know I shared a poem in my last blog, but I have one more poem to wrap up the time we’ve spent on active listening.  Maybe it will help you remember to use body language to show you’re listening. Active listening is truly a gift we can give to show others they are valued and we care.

LISTEN
©Tami Brumbaugh

Usually your quick wit is captivating
Gushing from your mouth like a compelling waterfall
I smile, eager to be pulled into the current

Often your words are soothing
Showering my parched soul with much needed rain
I uncross my arms, grateful to soak in every drop

Sometimes your discussion is informative
Spouting like a fountain of knowledge
I lean forward, inspired to dip my bucket for future use

Occasionally your chatter is repetitious
Flowing endlessly like a faucet with no shut-off valve
I nod, saturated but wringing out my clothes to take in more

Sporadically you complain or vent
Spewing unchecked from a broken pipe
I mirror your expression, sopping wet but determined to endure the storm

Through it all
You are worthy of my full attention
The world can wait
So let the words flow
I will listen