The first thing that pops into my head when I hear someone mention “patience” is a song I learned as a little kid. It was on the “Music Machine” record (yes—a record) and featured Herbert the Snail. Maybe you learned it, too.
Be patient, be patient
Don’t be in such a hurry
When you get impatient
You only start to worry.
Remember, remember
That God is patient, too
And think of all the times
When others have to wait for you.
Many songs have come and go, but this one stuck with me all of these years. I taught it to my own kids, and to many students when I was a preschool teacher. There are certainly many benefits in developing patience. Here are my top seven:
- Reduces Stress and Increases Happiness. When you practice patience you are more in control of your emotions and in a better position to deal with difficult situations.
- Helps You Meet Goals. Anything worthwhile requires time and effort. Patience helps you keep striving toward your goal.
- Results in better decision-making. The chances of making a big mistake lessen with patience because you take time to see the big picture and weigh the pros and cons.
- Gives You a Social Advantage. While others explode and cause a scene, patience allows you to remain cool and calm.
- Helps develop empathy and compassion.Patience allows you time to process what others are going through and think about how to help them.
- Changes your perspective. Patience helps you see trials as ways to grow instead of just useless pain. You’re building mental muscle.
- Changes the world. Modeling patience has potential to create a new generation of patient people. Imagine a world where we don’t attack each other over insignificant issues.
My childhood records disappeared years ago, but Herbert the Snail’s message lives on. Spending time developing patience is certainly worth our time.
