Coming Soon: Meraki

Do you ever wonder if your kids think they have personal maids or some magical creature that cleans up after them? I don’t know how many times I’ve told my children to clean up after themselves, only to have to repeat the message a few days later.

When I had toddlers, I thought I was being proactive by having them clean up their toys after playing. I made my preschool students pick up after themselves as well. My goal was to help kids become responsible, helpful people. Somehow, it still seems like a hard lesson to learn.

My reminders don’t always stick.
“Are you finished with that glass? Put it IN the dishwasher.”
“Your dirty clothes go IN the clothes hamper.”
“Do you remember where your shoes belong?”
How is it that a few days later, I’m tripping over more dishes, clothes, and shoes?

I’ve implemented reward systems, punishment (the trash bag collection approach seemed like such a great idea), and numerous other clever methods. Sometimes it helped for a few days, but I eventually reverted back to nagging. I often thought it would be helpful if I had a picture book with a cleaning message that I could read to my kid whenever needed, making reminders pleasant, not painful.

I’m starting a book series to fill the need. The first is coming out next week. It’s called Meraki. Meraki (may-rah-kee) is a Greek word that is intriguing to me. It means to do something with soul, creativity, or love, putting something of yourself into what you are doing. The Meraki creatures I created will stay as long as they aren’t overwhelmed with too much work. It’s up to kids to do their part so the Meraki will stay.