Teen Tug-of-War

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I can’t pass for a teen anymore. A few gray hairs are sneaking into my hair, bags are forming under my eyes, and extra pounds are refusing to acknowledge that I work out every day (okay, almost every day).

But I still gravitate to the young adult aisles in my public library—even when my teens aren’t with me. I’d like to say it was all because I’m being a good mom, reading books that my kids read so we can discuss them. That is a factor. But I’m also invading the teen section because I love reading books from every age group. Pete the Cat makes me start rhyming. Junie B. Jones cracks me up. Voldemort gives me the chills. My imagination gets cramped when I stay entirely in the book aisles geared specifically for adults. That’s probably why I’m an author for children and teens.

Lately, I’ve noticed a concerning trend in teen books. While there are still many decent books, I’m seeing more and more books specifically geared to young adults that I do not want my teens to read. Books with innocent sounding back covers are often laden with confusing messages. I’m not a censorship advocate, but COME ON.

Maybe some authors feel they need to incorporate sex and drugs to make their stories more thrilling. After all, it doesn’t do any good for us to write books if they’re just collecting dust on the shelves, while teens stay glued to a variety of screens. But isn’t it possible to write books that entertain and yet still encourage the next generation to make wise choices? Stress, confusion, and depression are already being fueled by media promoting unrealistic physical standards, sexual entanglements, and drug use. Why fan the flames by promoting the same elements in books?

There is a tug-of-war going on for our kids and teens today. Parents now have more outside forces to battle to keep kids on a positive path. I’m not ready to admit defeat. My kids are too important. Your kids are too important. I’m going on a quest to find ways to encourage the character traits that our society is trying to tear down. I would love to share what I find with you in this weekly blog. Together, we can make a difference.